Being a parent is a thrilling adventure with ups and downs, surprises, and happy moments. There is no shortage of advice available, but it’s time to face certain hard realities that all parents need to know. Here are some parenting facts that are often unsaid.

1. Surrendering to the uncontrollable: The truth is, you can’t control everything in parenthood. From unpredictable tantrums to unforeseen mishaps, start enjoying the chaos. Learning to roll with the punches will save you from unnecessary stress and frustration.

2. Guilt: Guilt has its way of creeping into the minds of parents. But here’s the truth: guilt doesn’t define you. It’s okay to acknowledge your slip-ups but don’t let them overshadow the countless moments of love and care you provide your child.

3. Treat regret as a learning: Maybe you opted for screen time to catch a breather, or perhaps you chose the wrong discipline tactic. But regretting a decision doesn’t automatically make it wrong. Instead of thinking about what could’ve been, use these moments as learning opportunities to grow and evolve.

4. Tiny breaks: Recognizing the need for downtime is a sign of self-awareness and self-care. Whether it’s a solo coffee break or a weekend getaway, prioritizing time for yourself is essential for maintaining your sanity and being the best parent you can be.

5. Parenting styles: No two parents are alike, and neither are their parenting styles. What works for one family may not work for another, and that’s okay. Whether you’re a helicopter parent or a free-range parent, enjoy your unique approach to parenting. Trust your instincts.

6. Struggles: Parenting isn’t always sunshine and rainbows—it’s okay to struggle. Just know that struggling doesn’t equate to failure. It’s proof of your dedication as a parent. Don’t be afraid to reach out for support when the going gets tough.

7. Imperfection: We all make mistakes and that’s what makes us human. Embrace your imperfections, celebrate your victories, and know that love is the greatest gift. So, let go of the pressure to be flawless and enjoy the messiness of parenthood.

Being a parent is a journey filled with both joy and challenges. Understanding these uncomfortable truths about parenting can help you navigate the ups and downs with grace and resilience. Remember, there is no perfect way to be a parent, but being present, loving, and willing to learn can make all the difference.