A 30-year-old Non-Resident Indian (NRI) shared his tough choice on Reddit. He is caught between looking after his aging parents in India and building a future for his children abroad. The user, the only son of nearly 60-year-old parents, said, "I genuinely love them and intend to return to India in the future if they need me," according to New India Abroad. While his parents are currently healthy, he fears how his role will change as they grow older. He added that staying abroad is easier for now, but visiting India brings conflict. "Apart from the usual challenges of living in India, there’s significant toxicity and excessive involvement from relatives on both sides of the family," he said. He asked Reddit users for advice. Many told him to focus on what works best for him, not society’s expectations. People shared their own stories of either returning to India or staying abroad. Immigration lawyers recommend planning ahead to keep family together. They suggest exploring family visas or sponsorships to bring close relatives abroad. This can help balance caring for aging parents while raising children in another country. Lawyers also warn to consult qualified immigration experts to avoid mistakes or scams.