English Heritage Installs Bonding Benches to Help Parents Fight Isolation at Famous Sites
February 10, 2026
English Heritage is tackling parental isolation by installing “bonding benches” at its well-known sites such as Stonehenge and Tintagel Castle. These benches have a sliding notice where parents can show if they are “up for a chat” or “craving quiet.” The goal is to help parents meet others and share the challenges of raising children.
Emma Fernandes-Lopes, assistant operations director at English Heritage, said, “Modern parenthood can be a really isolating experience. Many parents live a long way away from their extended families and have no support network to lean back on, and it’s often a real challenge to make friends who hold the same values and interests.”
Families account for over a third of visits to English Heritage sites, making these places great for building connections. Fernandes-Lopes added, “As parents, we are hardwired to prioritise our children’s wellbeing. But we often forget that the key to children’s wellbeing is actually found in whether their parents feel happy and supported.”
The charity is also launching communal activities and National Childbirth Trust (NCT) volunteer-led sling and buggy walks at selected locations. NCT research shows two-thirds of new parents feel lonely or isolated sometimes, and almost 90% feel overwhelmed at times. Nearly a quarter said they lack a strong support network.
Bonding benches will be placed near playgrounds and open spaces where families gather. Fernandes-Lopes, a mother of three, shared, “Parenthood can be a magical time but it can also be tough. We think these benches can help with loneliness and isolation.”
The NCT walks are planned at Audley End in Essex, Kenwood in London, Marble Hill in London, Wrest Park in Bedfordshire, and Kenilworth Castle in Warwickshire. Families visiting English Heritage sites can also enjoy an adventurer’s checklist with fun activities like spotting animals, splashing in puddles, and making silly sounds in echoey spots.
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